New technologies could be responsible for loneliness in young people
Among the multiple tools that new technologies have brought, social networks and other instant messaging applications have cut distances and offer a digital communication path. A scenario where, in theory, no one should feel alone since they could engage in conversation immediately without having to move from home.
But the reality is very different. The new generations feel more lonely than in past times, as indicated by organisms such as NSPCC, responsible for ensuring the welfare of children. A recent study by this entity reveals that social networks They are guilty of this feeling in the smallest after making a total of 4,636 consultations.
Search for support
What makes a teenager initiate activity on social networks? The answer is the search for support and friendships. The desire to feel part of a Group of friends It makes them interact on these platforms. The problem, as explained by this agency, is that far from growing new ties with other people, other relationships already consolidated are neglected.
The time spent on social networks means that, for example, there is no interaction with parents or siblings in the home. On the other hand, the relationships that are carried out on the Internet do not offer the same characteristics as in the person-to-person relationship. Something as simple as giving a hug in bad times can not be done through these online platforms.
By not having the same sensations as in a relationship in person, the feeling of loneliness appears when not enjoying the contact from individual to individual. Another effect of the use of social networks in children is to see how other friends have carried out an activity in which they have not had to see producing a sense of distance from the rest.
Friendships in social networks
The NSPCC notice is not the first to focus on warning that friendship on social networks is not a true interpersonal relationship. During the 38th Congress of the Federation of Associations of Parents of Pupils of the Schools of Promotion of Teaching Centers, it was also recalled that "800 contacts in social networks There are 800 real friends".
A warning that refers to the constant flow of messages that are given on these platforms and that creates a link between the users of these pages. Is this union a friendship? The experts do not think so. Asking how the day has gone on the internet does not mean that you can call someone friend, a person who just pick up the phone and ask to be there.
In addition, paradoxically, users of social networks tend to isolation from the rest of the world. The time they invest in these places is not dedicated, for example, to meeting real people and doing activities with peers of similar ages. We must also remember that true friendship is a relationship that is built day by day and that requires a lot of effort.
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