Questions about teen sex, when to give the talk?
Growing means learning and nothing better than a father and a mother to solve doubts. Inevitably over the years children feel doubts about a very complicated issue of dealing with a child: sex. However, talking about this matter is very important to prevent problems due to lack of information.
But when is the best time to talk about this with the children? What topics should be addressed in this famous "chat"With adolescents, what is the best way to deal with them?" There are many doubts that can arise in the mind of a father when dealing with this sensitive issue.
Strengthen the bond between parents and children
The talk about sex with a teenage son is something that should be prepared from years before. Not so much in its content, but in terms of trust. Parents should bet on a climate of dialogue from the earliest ages and always make see the little ones in the house who have a support to go to solve doubts. In this way, talking about any topic will not be complicated in the future.
Once this first step is achieved, earn the trust of a teenager, it will be less difficult for him to deal with issues that may be difficult to share with his parents, as in this case sex. The next thing that has to be overcome is the shame when it comes to talking about this issue with a child since what is important is to avoid the risks that a minor faces.
Every parent should know that it is better to talk about sex with their adolescent son to avoid "chatting" because otherwise there is a multitude of wrong ways why a child can get in touch with this issue: books, movies series; all of them can cause great confusion in the little ones. The role of adults is to prevent this from happening by providing a more responsible view on the subject.
Avoid confusions: how to talk about sex at home
The best time to start the famous "talk" can be around the 13- 14 years. Ages in which the adolescent can experience his first love and fall into dangerous situations related to sexuality. Parents should look for occasions such as a car trip, an afternoon at home or some other situation where the weather is calm and they can be alone with their children.
The first thing to do is give the opportunity to the Teen of expressing himself, of transmitting his doubts and what worries him the most within sex. Parents should answer these questions without falling into anger, we must understand that at these ages confusion is common and that adults have to be the rudder to make their children reach a good port.
You also have to remember, that while the children still they are not adultsThey are not small children anymore. It will be necessary to use an adequate terminology, especially when talking about the possible risks of sex at their ages. It must be understood that their bodies have not yet matured enough to face something as important as a physical relationship.
Do not focus on the adolescent son, the affirmations must be general. That is, we must not provoke a feeling of individuality in this case, in all situations it will be the same. Finally, we must understand that not by the fact of dispensing with sexual relations, a couple wants less. The love It is much more than that and waiting until the moment you are ready is something that will unite the bond even more.
Damián Montero
