Romance in the couple through Internet
The development of technology has brought great advances in many areas and has also opened new possibilities to meet people. This need to find love, to fall in love and feel loved by the human being has always found a new way of communication.
In Intenet Many pages of contacts have proliferated, where currently a good number of people have found the love of their lives, but there have also been many disappointments.
And it is that although living romances in the distance is not something new, but we know it from always, through these platforms it is easier to idealize the person who is on the other side of the screen and that there are frauds or deceptions related to the identity.
The negative side of knowing someone through the Internet
- Many times there are lies and identity tricks, which then leads to great disappointments and disappointments when one really knows the other person.
- Some chat with several people at the same time, making them feel their partner and the only ones, which is a form of infidelity and betrayal equal to that experienced in a normal relationship. Usually they are people who like to have several people, with a tendency to lie, to dishonesty and disrespect as it happens in normal relationships but also to occur in the distance is somewhat easier since it results more complicated to catch them.
- The person can get used to living with illusions and fantasies for fear of living the true love that implies not only some beautiful moments of the day but the experience of hugging, touching, making plans together and living a life in common, which many people fear and prefer to live from story that they have mounted in their head before disappointed or disappointed the other person.
- Reality can be another. The fact that two people who have fallen in love on the internet to see each other and live together are disappointed and break up is the same thing that can happen with someone you know not virtually, with whom you stay several times and then you see that it is not going to happen anymore and that what seemed very nice is not so much and it ends.
Recommendations before seeing your love from the internet
- The first time try to stay in a busy place with people, so that if you see that you do not like something you can go, or go accompanied by some friendship.
- Before knowing him, make sure that the identity he gave you is true and do not feel bad for distrusting, protect yourself to avoid shocks and disappointments, the most important thing is your well-being, do not kid yourself and tell you stories that you do not love him for asking and confirm that what he says is true.
Idoia Berridi. Life coach Author of the book BeLove method. Blog Be happy, be healthy, be you.
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