8 answers to 8 questions asked by teenagers

There is no child who does not put their parents on the ropes with uncomfortable questions that address difficult issues: sex, drugs, night outings, dress ... It is common not know what to answer and choose to drain the package in the best way possible .

A good trick to face better the "stimulating" stage of adolescence is to talk with other fathers and mothers who have already passed it ... and better if it is successful. Possibly they also asked other "progenitor experts" to err as little as possible at this crucial time of development.

8 possible answers to 8 questions typical of adolescents

Next, we rescued 8 typical questions, with several answers with the objective that each family chooses the one that best suits their style.


1. Why do I have to help at home, my obligation is to study?

- In this house we all live and we all have to collaborate to take it forward, each within its possibilities. We also work and we try that the house is in order to be at ease. What if we stop buying what we know you like? When you miss it, we'll tell you: Ah! Is that our obligation is to work in the office, then why do we have to take care that there is always your favorite cereal for breakfast?

- The obligations are not exclusive. You do not have only one obligation, you have several. One of them is to cooperate in the house where you live.


- Although it is true that studying in the long term favors the society in which you live, the obligation to study directly favors you only, but for an integral development of the personality you have to learn to live together. The spirit of service is free and it improves especially the helpful person. We can not demand it from anyone. You neither.

- Because we love each other and those who want to think about others, without calculating who does more. Studying is one of your obligations, but it is not the only one. We are a family and Our first obligation is to love ourselves. Now that you have an exam, your sister will do the assignment and tomorrow you will do it with gratitude. Being able to help each other without anyone passing the bill is a gift that makes us happy, a wonder that only happens in the family.

2. Why can not I go out with my friends when I want sun @? I am older. I'm the only one who does not go out at night. What happens that is a girl?


- There are things that are not bad in themselves and leave sun @ is not when you have the appropriate age to do it. You are lucky to have parents who care about you and who have no problems taking you and bringing you when necessary, until you are old enough to be sunny.

- I I trust you completely, in your responsibility and in your maturity, but I totally distrust the atmosphere that there is in the street from a certain time and I do not want it to happen to you like so many cases that we hear in the news. What other parents do for us is not a reference. Each family has its style and convictions.

- Look... Everything in its time; you will have time and always with measure. Starting a little later allows you to be more prepared to respond correctly to the situations you encounter, which will not all be good.

- For being a girl: you can not do what your brother did at this age because a girl is more unprotected, that's the only reason why I take you and your friends, and I pick you up later.

3. Why can not I go to that party? They all leave less to me.

- Ah ... yes? ... Who are "all"? Tell me I'm going to call your parents to see what they tell me.

- It depends on where the party is, who organizes it, until what time; if there are going to be parents pending or not. What you can not do is go to the adventure because you may end up having a hard time. If we leave you will always be accompanied by your group of friends, who think like you, who are your style, because you protect each other and you can leave before if necessary.

4. Why can not I connect every day?

- Ok, I do not forbid you to connect every day. But first think and answer the following questions: what time and at what time of day do you want to connect ?; Will you connect after doing what things? What do you lose by being connected and what do you gain?

- All is question of moderation. If you are able to connect just 10 minutes to discuss a quick topic, or contact someone, go ahead; but if you show that you do not have the sufficient maturity to put yourself a limit, we as responsible for your education will have to do it for you. It would be a shame and we hope it does not have to happen.

- Why create dependency, like every repeated act and it is a waste of time.

5. What harm can a porrito do to me?

- A joint does not hurt. One. The problem is that how you like the experience ... tYou play life. It's as if your mother or I one day tried to go from home to sleep in a hotel where they give us everything done, to see if we like to live like that. How we like it, you're settled. That's why sensible people do not try certain types of experiences.

- What harm makes you not smoke it? A porrito, none, can even do you a lot of good if it serves to loathe you for life ... But, will you be able to try only one puff for life?

- A porrito no harm, at most take a buzz, like a cigarette. Two porritos something else. A porrito or five each weekend bring you to the little doggie day and you have just become addicted to porrito, that in addition to the physical damage already very contrasted, in the libido among others, they turn you into a person without will.

- Why affects memory and studies directly, and because starting with one is the path of the next. Because it is the easy way, if you smoke it because you have problems and it is never the solution. On the contrary, it will be the beginning of many more problems.

6. Why can not I wear helmets whenever I want?



- Is demonstrated in scientific studies, and I can find you one if you doubt it, that the helmets used regularly produce a significant hearing loss in the medium and long term. Do you want to wear headphones with 40 or 50 years? As in everything is a matter of moderation: use them little, with music at low volume and always those who cover the entire ear, never those of "pinganillo".

- Because it's impolite and creates the habit of disconnecting even in class when the teacher speaks.

- Right now, in the middle of adolescence when the changes you are having make you more dispersed, with less ability to concentrate, with feelings and emotions to the surface if I let you wear helmets at all hours you will evade even more, it will be much more difficult to do what you should, concentrate on the studies, have self-control in your imagination, control your overflowing feelings.

- Somehow helmets isolate you from others and they put you alone in your inner world. Precisely this stage is that of the great ideals, dreams and projects, in which you make yours what you have received until now, and your intimacy grows, your interiority to give to others. It is convenient to choose what helps us and not what makes us more difficult.

- In many cases, both the music and the lyrics of the songs are very sensual, provocative We put the enemy by the ears and "isolated" without letting what surrounds us help us, because nobody notices.

- The use of helmets down the street makes you go more distracted but, above all, it prevents you from thinking, reflecting, organizing or planning what you have to do next; grow in inner life in the broadest sense of the word. These are moments when, not being focused on work, you can take advantage of all of the above.

- It is true that the helmets accompany when it is done jogging, but remember that you cancel the sense of hearing to be aware of a car in motion that goes behind you, or out of your angle of vision, or to hear a siren, or simply to realize that someone is addressing you.

7. Why can not I get a tattoo or put on a piercing?

- I really like them, I do not forbid you But what I do not like are the horteradas and the exaggerations. So, before deciding, tell me where the piercing will go or what size and pattern will be the tattoo. Then we talk.

- The piercings in according to what places of the body have a sexual morbid. The reason for not putting one on the tongue, for example, is the same as why we can not be continuously sexually arousing ourselves. Overexcitation is not good, neither for true love nor for the normal functioning of the brain.

- Aging comes and a hole in the nose at forty is a gap; and, at forty-five, a third nostril through which your snot drops. Therefore, in a few years you will have to repair it with cosmetic surgery.

8. Why can not I go on a diet? Why do I have to eat what I do not like?

- Diet: because medical help is needed to assess and balance a diet and not fall into an eating disorder. But I will take you to the doctor and I will help you, you will exercise more and we will eat healthier.

- Eat everything: because life is like feeding, it is full of dishes that you do not like. Because you forge your will with that little sacrifice and overcoming.

- Diet: because you are at a key moment of your development, If you reverse it with a bad diet, your metabolism can change irreversibly. If you are worried about your weight, only an endocrine can help us.

- Eat everything: if you only eat what you like you eliminate many essential nutrients for a complete diet, which directly influence your health and your physical and intellectual development.In addition, people who complain constantly or who only work for the "I want" are very unattractive to others.

Ana Aznar

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