Internet Relations: Infidelity on line
The ease of access to the Internet and the seduction of social networks has changed the way we relate to people. Thus, both technological fields have revolutionized both the way of knowing a new partner and the possibility of committing a infidelity. Currently, it is estimated that more than 80 percent of infidelities begin on the Internet: infidelity on line.
Since the arrival of social networks, it is easier to contact and make friends with other people and this is achieved with a single click. Face to face, sometimes violent for many people, we have become protected behind a screen, which encourages flirting, sometimes out of curiosity, boredom or loneliness. So what begins as something innocent can become a new relationship. In fact, every time there are more couples who have met on the Internet and have married later.
The temptation of infidelity on the Internet
In this effort to get out of the routine, many people find a wide range of portals on the Internet to contact strangers. Thus, the Internet has become the platform that has helped them meet the love of their lives, but this issue becomes unpleasant when people have been duped into adventures that have led to terrible disappointments to their partners. We go into the cases of"virtual" infidelity, a "non-sexual" relationship, but full of intimacy, feelings, thoughts and a loving relationship.
Why people get hooked on a relationship via the Internet
What moves a person who is committed to another to conquer and be conquered? The reasons for online infidelity:
1. The excessive ego It can be the answer and satisfy it has nothing to do with the love of real life. However, relations with Interner become a problem when the game becomes an obsession, that is, when the feeling crosses the computer screen and interferes with their daily lives and relationships.
2. The seduction of the forbidden. Maintaining this double virtual life generates a large amount of adrenaline, which makes people have very intense emotions, sometimes similar to those experienced during the stage of falling in love.
3. The recreation of the ideal couple. Through the Internet, it is possible to let the imagination fly by forming an ideal partner, built with the virtues and qualities that you like and that is often far from reality.
4. The ideal moment. In virtual relationships only good times are shared, leaving for real life bad moods, problems, fatigue and responsibilities. It is like living in an ideal situation constantly.
Bad Internet connoisseurs: recommendations
- Post only messages that you have meditated on. Being carried away by impulses can lead to misinterpreted messages. Thus you will not give rise to ambiguities.
- Reflect before accepting some ex-partner in social networks. Maintaining a virtual friendship with an ex-partner requires a lot of emotional maturity. Maintaining a link of this type can make you regret having accepted the contact.
- Discriminate friend requests. Avoid accepting any friend request sent to you. Before accessing the request, keep in mind that you are allowing unknown people to have full access to all your personal information.
- If you are engaged, married or have a boyfriend, communicate it in the network. Avoid conflicts with your partner. It is nothing positive for the relationship to make others understand that you are single if the reality is different.
Marisol Nuevo Espín
