Summer loves among teenagers
Boys and girls in summer are dying to fall in love, more than at other times of the year, so it is normal that they bite ... because when you really want something, it's likely that, in the end, all means are put in place for this to happen.
In summer it seems that the environment is conducive to falling in love, it may be that that's why there are so many movies and songs that deal with this topic. Some will remember the movie of The big family, when the beautiful sister falls in love with the handsome guy who was on the beach. Others will have in your memory some summer song that brings many memories to your head, there is one from the time of my parents that the other day I found myself humming: I know that this summer you will fall in love, you will fall in love ...
The desire to fall in love with young people
In the process of affective maturation there is a proper stage for falling in love and flirting. Just as the roosters walk around the corral, the boys are all proud to see who looks at them, and the girls let themselves look and look to be looks. It is a narcissistic stage, of discovery of oneself. Others, however, pass this stage fatally because only the defects are seen, and maybe a granite on the nose or a bad haircut, make it a tragedy.
At this stage it is normal for teenagers to fall in love with a boy who they see every morning at the bus stop, and maybe they will never know what his name is. All this belongs to the desire to love of the heart that makes you want that other or another that you see there, and that seems to embody all the virtues that we would like the man or woman of your life to have.
In summer those dreams that fill their heads, together with having too much free time and sometimes group pressure, makes boys and girls end up with any girlfriend, sometimes only to be able to boast of being a noviete! But that can lead them to absurd situations, and complicated.
Summer and loves
Tips for children under 20
- In the summer, rest and have a great time, but do not screw up, it's still you.
- Take advantage of summer to do a lot of things for which you do not have time in winter, plan summer and days.
- If your summer relationship does not match what you are in winter, beware, surely you are betraying yourself and what you really want to be.
Tricks for parents
- Nothing happens to be heavy, it is appreciated all of life. It is normal that there is a change in schedules, but that does not mean that lack of control is the norm.
- It is good to know and ask who our children are with and what they are doing. That does not mean that we do not teach them to grow and to use their freedom well.
Summer is a very good time to rest, have a great time meeting a lot of people and making new friends. If really someone worthwhile appears for his life, surely he is not only in a summer love.
Monica of Aysa. Master in Marriage and sexuality
