Multiple births, advice to face the upbringing of all the children who arrive at the same time
Not all births are the same and there are times when parents do not receive a single visit, but they see their effectiveness paternity twice. Double births mean that some parents face a greater challenge with two children. A situation that can overwhelm some because, as has been said, the challenge is multiplied by two.
If a baby changes the family routine the arrival of two makes it even more so. But we must not fear this greater alteration, but accept it and assimilate all the happiness that newborns can bring home. You just have to know how to deal with these situations and for this purpose from the American Academy of Pediatrics a series of advices are given to those who are the progenitors protagonists of these multiple births.
Know the risks
Before childbirth, pregnancy goes and in the case of multiple pregnancies there are certain risks that must be known for keep them in mind and know how to react to them. The most common is preterm birth, that is, the birth of premature babies. A single child takes 40 weeks to get to this world, while in the case of twins it usually lasts between 35 and 37.
Statistics show that around the world, more than half of twins are born prematurely, before 37 weeks of gestation. In fact, the risk of premature delivery increases in multiple births of a higher order.
A premature birth is usually translated with health problems. Therefore, the care that these babies need and to take care of any symptom that indicate the presence of a condition or infections that require medical attention or hospitalization.
Another complication that most likely to occur in multiple pregnancies is pre-clammia, pregnancy diabetes, placental problems and fetal growth problems. These cases are also associated with an increased risk of developing long-term health problems.
To look for help
A multiple birth is a challenge for which one should not be afraid when asking for help. Especially if parents already have other children, they should not feel bad if they turn to grandparents or other relatives to help out at home. Whether to take care of older siblings or simply ask for advice, the family is always ready for this task.
In the case that there are older brothers, we must also make them aware that they will have to help. From the American Academy of Pediatrics explains that even in tasks as simple as folding the clothes of the smallest or order the house help a lot so that parents can focus on the upbringing of the two babies who have arrived in multiple birth.
From the Nemours Foundation they explain that especially during the first weeks in which children are present at home, parents of multiple births should request this help. A support that will help to stabilize the situation in the home until the parents adapt to this rhythm and can work according to it, and what is more important: enjoy this situation.
Damián Montero
